Counseling for the Relationship That You Want and Deserve

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Sex & Relationship Therapy in the Tri-Valley & East Bay

Sex Therapy • Couples Counseling • Individual Therapy

My name is Nagma V. Clark, PhD, LPCC, CST. As an AASECT certified sex therapist and couples counselor, I support both couples and individuals—my work is to help you move through pain, miscommunication, or dissatisfaction in your sex life and relationships to find closeness and fulfillment.

If sex feels "off": it's boring, or painful, or makes you anxious...
If you dread coming home from work to avoid another fight...
If you feel alone in your relationship, like you're roommates instead of lovers and partners...
If you're healing from betrayal or an affair...
If you're worried about falling for the wrong person again...

...therapy can help you (and your partner) repair past hurts to create a fully satisfying marriage/relationship and life.

The first step is to contact me for an initial free consultation.

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Your relationship is worth fighting for.

You're willing to do whatever it takes to heal your love life and sex life and get to the REAL issues pretty quickly… which is why I won't hesitate to help you examine what’s no longer serving you, and nudge you gently to make changes.

Repair your relationship

A fulfilling sexual connection. Healing from past resentments or infidelity. Learning to love again. You can create a true partnership where you make each other the top priority, have each other’s back, and love each other unconditionally.

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Sex Therapy

Couples Counseling

Individual Relationship Therapy

LGBTQQI Therapy

Premarital Counseling

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